So much for being an independent individual.

That kind of excuse is just so stupid. So low. Just to get someone else to get to do things for you.

And there you go going about how independent you’ve been, how you’ve gone places on your own terms, your own savings, your own abilities. So next time u come up with an excuse, Come up with a better one.

That was just so low. Even for you.

what could have been.
♥ 2:48 PM

discussing of dirty laundry in public?

Even if u’re supposedly not the one blamed. What use does it bring? What do u have to prove?

It doesn’t say much about your supposedly innocence if u have to prove it to everyone. Cos I’m pretty sure your friends and loved ones know that you are not the wronged party here. So why should you air your dirty laundry? Get sympathy votes? Alienate the other party? What good would it bring? Some people might even say that you haven’t gotten over the issue, which I’m pretty sure you wouldn’t agree to.

So be the bigger person. Or rather, be the mature individual here; even if the other party slanders you. Cos you know for a fact then that the other party hasn’t gotten over it.

Think about it.

what could have been.
♥ 2:45 PM

Sometimes you have to be the bigger person, to ignore all the insults, all the critics. Cos at the end of the day, you will be the one who’s come out stronger out of everything. And that is a respectable trait that not everyone is attributed with.

The other person would just be another disgruntled person who just can’t adapt to the surrounding.

And to that other person, I know it feels like the whole world is against you now, I do hope you mature soon enough to see that not everything is about you, and that people do do things that they don’t wish to and as a result have to sacrifice certain things. Like their own space, their own version of a life well-lived.

So take a moment to think about it before you hurl insults. Cos sometimes these sacrifices are not seen by the naked eye. And well, I don’t know about you, but I rather feel mature then be an immature individual who just can’t seem to grasp the idea that there are other people in this world too., whom I might say may not have the same fortune as we do.

I know this topic makes me sound like a boring person, but who cares. Atleast I get the respect I want from people that means most to me. Atleast my decisions are not questionable cos they know that I would do the right thing.

Think about it.

what could have been.
♥ 9:42 AM

This is what I think.

For others to treat you with respect, you have to treat yourself with respect first. That includes not doing the things that people can use to humiliate you or your family. Even if it hurts, u know you are being the bigger person here cos ultimately, there’s nothing that they can dig up to use against you. It’s your word against theirs.

You don’t have to conform to the society to show people that you are special. If you have to use your body or your looks to entice people, then u are simply not special. You are just like any one out there on the streets. How can you expect to be treated as being someone really special then? Yes it’s gonna take awhile and sometimes it will hurt for people to not see you for who you really are, but at the end of the day, it’s all worth it. Cos you know you got what you want, or reached your destination by being yourself and not some other person the society or the people around you want you to be.

just a little thought.

what could have been.
♥ 4:17 PM